What options do men like me have?

Women do make the 1st move very often if you're a good looking guy like myself. If not, then I wouldn't count on it happening often. Women are anything but hard to get if you play your cards right. It all starts with confidence. It's a #'s game. Even if you close 1% that's still better than 0. So have confidence and you'll land minimum 1 out every 100 girls you approach. gl